Well if he’s allowing you to bring people with you to feel safe, go for it and see what happens. Do some research so you’ll know what questions to ask and how everything is supposed to work. If it doesnt work out at least you tried right?
That was I was kinda thinking :) I even expressed my concerns and he said he understood. Even said himself, come see what its all about. If you dont like it, you didnt do anything to be scared about it popping up later! So he isnt making things much easier with all the right answers! Maybe I just dont wanna see the good because I’m so used to the bad! Thank you for you help!